Seems some commenters to think Asexuals must be, basically abstinent; even grey sexual or denisexual labels; are not helpful in describing sexual energy possibly without attraction or effort to control someone with an emotional bond usually for ritualistic social entrapments.

For example; it's possible for one or two people to build sexual energy; even redirect it into artforms or other activities or experiences.

So many aspects of society; are falling apart due to similar linear, toxic & unnecessary puritanical authoritarianism; well beyond reasonable personal boundaries in many areas. Thank you for taking the time to clearly dive deeply into this confusing & beautiful subject.